Relational Dialectics in Action

In this discussion, you are going to use the Relational Dialectics Theory to see what types of relational tensions are present in some of your relationships.
Select a personal relationship, such as a romantic partner, a friend, or a family member to use for the discussion. For your initial post, state what type of relationship you are describing, and then respond to each of the following questions with a minimum 4-sentence answer. Be sure to include examples to describe each of the tensions in your relationship.

Describe the autonomy/connection tension within your relationship, which one is the norm?
Describe the closedness/openness tension within your relationship, which one is the norm?
Describe the novelty/predictability tension within your relationship, which one is the norm?

Autonomy/Connection: This refers to the desire to be close and connected in a relationship, as well as maintain individuality and independence in the relationship. Individuals have to have time alone or they may risk losing independent identity within a relationship.
Closedness/Openness: This refers to the desire to share everything with your partner, but at the same time wanting to keep some information private. Some feel it is important to share everything with their partner and avoid keeping secrets. Others agree that privacy is important for maintaining identity and unity in the relationship.
Novelty/Predictability: This refers to the pull or desire to achieve both predictability while maintaining the variety that adds excitement, spontaneity, and mystery in a relationship to avoid becoming complacent or bored. For example, you may find that you need more excitement in your relationship if the activities you and your partner participate in becoming repetitive.